my arrogance

Today, don't know why, suddenly something just stop over my head. Something that always destroy my friendship and relationship to other people. It is my arrogance. Maybe I have been famous as a arrogant girl. Maybe it cause so many people hate me and try to stay away from me. I just can't control it. It's just happen without ascendency. My bad habit, talking without thinking slowly show the effect. And now I realize it will give bigger bad effect to my future. I've consultation with my friends. Some says I have to changed to be a good girl, to make a better relationship with people. Some says I just have to control the size of my conceit because when you change, no matter it's good or bad, a little part of you is convert into a hypocrite. And some says, don't change or something like that, just be who I am, if people don't accept who you are, they are not be the one who needed in my life. So what should I do? Idk, I haven't find the conclusion yet. Maybe someday, I'll try that opinions one by one and taste the impact. Wish me luck!! :)